Mob Wives star Drita D’Avanzo is back to help with your problems! Check back every week for Drita’s distinct brand of tough-love advice, and you can even send in questions of your own! Just email firstname.lastname@example.org, or tweet @OKMagazine with the hashtag #OKAskDrita.
What would you do if your boyfriend for the last year says he needs to find himself, but still wants to live together and do everything the same but just not carry the title of boyfriend/ girlfriend?!?!
Heartbroken and confused
I am actually confused myself! If he wants to find himself but wants to keep everything the same but not carry a title? He obviously is confusing the both of us, because he is confused himself! I really think you need to sit down with him and try to understand what it is he exactly wants? I do think you should appreciate his honesty even though it’s not what you want to hear. I know many women that were fooled by thinking that everything was grea,t and their boyfriend was unhappy and when he walked out the door he no longer had the title of boyfriend but failed to mention it.
I think you should tell him that you really are hurt by his decision and do appreciate his honesty. You should try and see what the root of the problem is, and see if it can be fixed. I know this really hurts and you are going through a hard time, but he wants to live with you and keep everything the same but no longer date??? Think about what he is saying. Maybe he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings and say he no longer wants to live together, because he wants to be single or maybe he is saying he wants you to stay in the house and be all his but he can do whatever he pleases because he is no longer your boyfriend. Either way, it’s not good, and my advice to you is telling him after thinking long and hard, you no longer want to be his roommate. And look for somewhere else to live. If it’s your place than tell him to find a place to live.
I know this is hard and you don’t want to, but if you live with him under these circumstances you will be miserable, and if you move out you will be sad but at least you will move on. Maybe you leaving will make him realize he is losing you for good, and he will have a change of heart. Or maybe not, but whatever happens you will be happy in the end. It might not look like it now, but you will. Stay strong and don’t show him you need him to live and breathe right. Show him that you are a strong, independent women that doesn’t need anyone unless they are making her happy. What he wants is NOT making you happy ,so make that move!!!! You will be fine in the end, girl!
Okay, so how do I prevent my eyeliner and mascara from running under my eyes? By the end of the day I look like I’ve been punched and have 2 black eyes! I use prep and primer, blot powders and named brand expensive makeup, and the only solution I’ve been able to do is not wear mascara or eyeliner on my lower eyelid. But I want to wear it! What do I do???
This is the problem I suffered from most of my life. I have heavy lids, and eyeliner would end up all over the place. My mascara would smear no matter what brand I used too, but you are in luck and will love me after this!
Primer is great for the lids and lash primer is great too, but is not going to help it not smear. When I started my own cosmetic line, I obviously added a ton of things to my line that I needed specifically for myself and a ton of things that women have asked for or complained about for over 10 years doing makeup. These are the products I use myself and I promise that the liner will NOT move. The mascara is waterproof (the only thing I use). These waterproof, long-lasting products are truly incredible BUT you have to use an oil-based makeup remover. It’s very difficult to remove and it’s important you use the right makeup remover so you do not damage your lashes.
Again, I am giving you the links to my products and what I use. If you choose not to use them just look for the exact same thing to use and you will truly be happy and wish you knew about it all these years!!
Luxe Gel Liner (waterproof, smudge-proof, long-lasting)
Fine Liner Brush (to apply the luxe liner)
Dual Action Makeup Remover (great for any waterproof products) and this will leave your skin feeling so soft
What do you think of Drita’s advice this week? What is going on with that boyfriend? How do you do your eye makeup? Tell us in the comments below or tweet us @OKMagazine.