Casper Smart and Jennifer Lopez: It Wasn't Love at First Sight

Marc Anthony will be relieved to hear that his freshly separated ex-wife didn't exactly plan on dating her twenty-something back-up dancer. Rather, their May/December romance happened "very naturally."

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"I don't think it was love at first sight for either of us," Casper Smart admitted on Good Morning America. "It was just very natural how it happened. There was nothing before, no flirting, nothing."

Jennifer Lopez wasn't as forth coming, but says she manages to remain optimistic about love after three failed marriages. While she admits being her man "can be difficult" it's really the fantasy of a perfect union that keeps her going.

Right now, Casper is chief choreographer of her current world tour with Enrique Iglesias, and while he calls her "the boss" the former American Idol judge is open to suggestions, he says.

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“I have done it many times and it’s difficult with some people," Jennifer said of working with significant others. "And some people, it’s easy. Just depends on their personality."