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Jill Zarin’s Tips for Dealing With Frenemies
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Jill Zarin celebrates her tenth wedding anniversary this week during the Season of the Witch premiere held at AMC Loews Lincoln Square in NYC.
While the Real Housewives star is lovey-dovey with hubby Bobby, but she is best known for her volatile situation with co-star Bethenny Frankel.
What has she learned about dealing with frenemies?
“Be nice,” she tells me. “You get more out of life by being nice. Life is short. Just be nice to everybody.”
She asks Bobby what he always tells her about the situation.
“I never met a man I didn’t like,” he says. “Do you know what the ugliest word in the world is?”
“Hate,” Jill chimes in.
Bobby says, “Don’t hate anybody.”
Season of the Witch is in theaters Friday.