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Luann De Lesseps Claims She 'Didn't See The Red Flags' With Ex Tom D'Agostino
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Sept. 7 2017, Updated 3:53 p.m. ET
Better late than never? After being warned countless times by her fellow Real Housewives of New York castmates and friends, Luann de Lesseps recently spoke out about her failed marriage to businessman Tom D'Agostino, Jr.
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On an episode of Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen, the 52-year-old reality TV star insisted she was "very much in love" with her ex.
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Bethenny Frankel was among those who alerted Luann about Tom's wandering eye, who was often seen at the Regency with various other women. 'And of course, I said to him, ''Don't go to The Regency!'' She tried everything to save her relationship.
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"I didn't see all of these red flags," she said. "So it was hurtful."
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The straw that broke the camel's back was the news about who Tom has on his arm now—none other than Luann's publicist friend Anna Rothschild!
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"I'm definitely hurt by that and not happy," Luann told Andy.
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But even though the two have gone through a very public breakup, Luann said that she is still in touch with Tom. "Just because we're divorcing doesn't mean we can't talk and be like grown ups."