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'RHONY' Star Countess Luann De Lesseps Dishes Her Tricks On Snagging Rich Men
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May 1 2019, Published 5:19 p.m. ET
Get that paper! Countess Luann De Lesseps stopped by The Real on Wednesday, May 1, and laid down the law for finding a rich husband. The Real Housewives of New York City star revealed her secrets for snagging the man of your dreams and if she'll ever get married again.
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"Never say never, right? I am a hopeless romantic and like they say 'three times is a charm,'" the 53-year-old said when asked if she would ever tie the knot again.
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As fans know, the reality star was previously married to French aristocrat Count Alexandre de Lesseps and then Thomas D’ Agostino Jr.
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The Bravo celebrity then spilled her tricks for meeting men. "If you want to meet a man, go to the bank, get a good case for your phone, and instead of giving the tissue trick, drop your cell phone," she quipped.
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"They will pick it up, the gentlemen. Instead of being on the phone, drop it and let a gentleman pick it up," she added.
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The cabaret singer also confessed that Hugh Grant made a pass at her way back when!
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Luann told the story of how she met the "sexy" Four Weddings and a Funeral star. "I have had a crush on him forever. I was at a restaurant, he was having dinner with his family and so was I. I kind of backed up into his chair and I said, 'Oh, excuse me.' Before I knew it he was sitting at my table. And we had a little flirt. A big flirt. My brother was sitting across from me, and he said, 'I can't believe you are kissing Hugh Grant right now!'"
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"He's an amazing kisser," Luann laughed.
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