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Tamar Braxton Calls Her Past Behavior 'Ugly & Stupid,' Issues Apology To Her Family
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Dec. 12 2018, Updated 8:33 p.m. ET
Tamar Braxton is trying to right her wrongs. She wrote a heartfelt note to her sister, Trina, apologizing for any past indiscretions and bad behavior. The 41-year-old posted on Instagram a video of her and her older sis with a long caption beside it. In it, she talked about going into 2019 with a new attitude as she apologized for her past mistakes.
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In the post she wrote, "Sometimes you have to check yourself before you reck yourself!!!"
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The singer also revealed a major secret about her reality show, Braxton Family Values. She said, "Most of what u have seen on #BFV was LIES and clips put together with me acting a PLUM FOOL for ratings(believe it or not)and sometimes I simply was one☝️ BUT, what is FACTUAL is that it tore my family & Sisterhood apart?."
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The former The Real co-host vowed to be a better person in 2019. "THANK GOD FOR JESUS and FORGIVENESS!! I’ve decided I’m not going into 2019 the same bitter, combative, woe it is me person," she declared.
Tamar claimed in the post that the "'you did this so ima do that' attitude" is "ugly and frankly stupid." "Ive realized change is just one simple DECISION!!! No matter what it takes my commitment to me is to be a BETTER me," she continued.
The actress concluded, "Sometimes all it takes is saying I Love you and I’m sorry for MY PART of the bulls**t @trinabraxton1 ?." She signed off with the hashtags "#funsisternight," "#onebyone," and "#jesushewillfixit."
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