What Would the Countess Do?: Consoling Loved Ones; Collecting On Debts

When it comes to etiquette, manners and overall good behavior, even celebrities need help navigating the rough waters of stardom! It’s a good thing Countess LuAnn de Lesseps of the Real Housewives of New York is joining forces with OK! to school them on the right thing to do! In a rough situation, we just ask, “What Would the Countess Do?” This week the Countess discusses showing loyalty to designers and ending long-term feuds.

Amy Winehouse's tragic death has left friends, family and fans mourning her loss. What is the appropriate way to help a friend deal with loss without overstepping your bounds?

When a friend experiences a tragic loss, it is important that you listen and let him or her talk about how they feel. Avoid using clichés and instead be sincere and say that you are sorry. Be there for your friend in the days and weeks after the funeral when they will feel most alone. Watch for signs of long-term depression and speak up if you think your friend needs professional help to deal with their loss.