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Tamra Judge Breaks Down In Tears Over Ex-Husband Simon Barney
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Jun. 18 2019, Published 7:41 p.m. ET
Tamra Judge got very emotional while discussing her relationship with ex-husband Simon Barney in a shocking new interview. The Real Housewives of Orange County costar reunited with him at their daughter Sophia’s 8th grade graduation last month.
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Tamra, 51, spoke with Entertainment Tonight about her current relationship with Simon years after their very public and painful divorce.
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"We’ve actually been getting along very well," the Cut Fitness owner told ET next to her husband Eddie Judge. "It’s been a long time coming but, you know, I’ve always wanted this. I've always wanted to co-parent and now we're actually doing it."
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"I think we're at a point in our lives where we're just like, you know what? We're both happy, we went through this, it was hard but let’s make the best of it," she said. "So, we've moved on."
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Things have been tough for them as coparents. Their eldest daughter Sidney, who has been estranged from Tamra for years, opted to live with Simon while son Spencer stayed with Tamra and Eddie, 46. Sophia, their youngest, splits time between the two.
"We have this big division in our family," Tamra said. "I don’t want to cry, but… our kids split. And Spencer lives with me and Eddie for the past four years, and Sidney is off at college and, you know, I think it was a real, big eye-opener to both of us, and I think that it was a time that we realized that we gotta keep it together.
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The downfall of Tamra and Simon’s relationship played out on RHOC. They split in 2011 after thirteen years of marriage.
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Tamra married Eddie two years later. Their engagement and wedding were both shown on RHOC and their spinoff Tamra’s OC Wedding.
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Are you happy to see Tamra and Simon build a relationship again? Sound off in the comments!