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Tamra Judge Shares Rare Photo With Ex-Husband Simon Barney
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Jun. 1 2019, Published 1:52 p.m. ET
Real Housewives of Orange County star Tamra Judge shared a rare photo of her with ex-husband Simon Barney on Sunday, May 31. The downfall of their marriage, which ended in 2011, dramatically played out on the show. Read on for all the details.
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Tamra, 51, shared a set of Instagram photos from her daughter Sophia's middle school graduation.
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One of the snaps included Sophia, 13, Tamra and Simon posing together outside of her school.
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"We are so proud of you," Tamra captioned an Instagram story of the three of them at tbeir daughter's special night.
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Tamra and Simon split in 2011 after thirteen years of marriage. Her storyline on RHOC often revolved around them fighting and trying to save their union.
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Tamra recently revealed the moment she knew she had to leave Simon. She did this in an Instagram Q&A after a fan asked her how she found the strength to leave a bad marriage.
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“It wasn’t easy,” Tamra responded. “I told myself when our arguing started affecting the children I knew I had to leave. It’s hard at first but you find your happiness I promise.”
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The Cut Fitness owner remarried in 2013. She wed Eddie Judge in a limited series on Bravo called Tamra's OC Wedding.
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