Taylor Swift wants her pal Selena Gomez get over Justin Bieber for real this time and has a game plan for how Selena should do it!

An insider told OKMagazine.com exclusively that Tay wants her new BFF to burn everything and anything she owns that reminds her of their “toxic relationship.”

“Taylor’s telling Selena to get together everything – letters, clothes, photos, even mp3s – and burn it in an empty bird bath in her garden,” the source told OK! exclusively. “Selena is reluctant because she knows it could all be worth something one day, but Taylor is being very persuasive.”

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Taylor advised Selena that burning her keepsakes from the relationship will “exorcise any energy that’s associated with” her ex-bofriend Justin and is the only way to do it “if she ever wants to move on.”

“It seems like a kind of a spooky ritual thing but Selena is starting to feel like it’s going to be a kind of weight lifted from her shoulders,” the source said.

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Selena also recently admitted that a weight was lifted off her shoulders when she released her newest music video for The Heart Wants What It Wants. She admitted the emotional video was directed towards Bieber but is “at peace now” with her past.

“I was trying to figure out what I’m doing, and that was the first time I was constantly being kicked down for doing that,” she said in an interview with Ryan Seacrest. “And yeah, I made some decisions that weren’t great as well, and so did he and that’s why we went through all that to only make us better.”

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And while the Jelena romance won’t be rekindled any time soon, Selena said she still cares for Justin.

“I support him. I think I always will. I’m upset when he’s upset, I’m happy when he’s happy. I don’t want anything bad ever happen to him. It hurts me. That’s all.”

What do you think, OK! readers, should Selena take Tay’s advice and let it burn? Or do you still have hope for Jelena to get back together? Let us know in the comments and tweet to us at @OKMagazine!

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