There comes a time in every young woman’s life when she walks down the aisle with all her BFFs by her side. Karlie Kloss and new husband Joshua Kushner tied the knot on Thursday, October 18 but bestie Taylor Swift wasn’t around to celebrate with them. While fans weren’t sure if the two were even friends anymore, the model went to the “Blank Space” singer’s concert in Nashville at the end of August, which put all of the rumors to bed. So why wasn’t Taylor there for Karlie’s special day? Keep reading to hear why the pop star was unable to attend the ceremony.

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