You might remember Kelly Rutherford‘s character Lily dating William, Rufus, and Bart Bass—but as much as you hate to admit it, Gossip Girl is just a TV show. We know, we know. You didn’t want to end the Upper East Side journey just yet. Who did? But while we’re chatting about matters of the heart, the actress actually has some extremely valuable love advice to give out to the world, and it has nothing to do with Dan and Serena.
The actress explained to Your Tango that sometimes women “lose” in relationships, stating, “But I think it’s important to get back in tune with ourselves again, to find that place where we are always taking care of ourselves and our relationship as well—particularly women.”
She also shares that this was a bit of her mother’s advice.
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