Melissa Gorga Reveals Watching Marriage Struggles Play Out On Season 11 Of 'RHONJ' Brought Her & Husband Joe Gorga Closer

For the past few years, Melissa and Joe Gorga have seemed to be one of the most solid couples in Bravo's Housewives franchise — which is why it was so surprising to see the two hit a rough patch last season.

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The pair — who share Antonia, Joey Jr. and Ginofound themselves embroiled in an argument during a night out in the 11th season of Real Housewives of New Jersey. What started as something minor became a full-blown argument, with Joe warning his wife to "be careful what you say, because I'll never speak to you again."

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Melissa eventually admitted that the two had underlying issues due to her red-hot career. "I’m not home as much as I used to be," the Love Italian Style: The Secrets of My Hot and Happy Marriage author explained at the time. "I have to go to Fashion Week, I have to go to the trade shows. I have appearances, I have red carpets, and if it was up to him, I would just cook and clean, and I’ll be here at 4 with your dinner."

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(For his part, Joe said as much in an earlier season when he informed his wife — who had just opened up her Envy by Melissa Gorga boutique in Montclair, New Jersey — “This wasn’t our deal, our deal was I get married to you and you watch the kids. I gotta work.”)

Their argument continued on the next day, with the tension being almost palpable while filming during a day at the Jersey Shore.

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However, more than a year later, Melissa tells OK! the two are doing “so much better”.

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"I think it was [the pandemic] and it’s always hard for Joe to get a grip on the fact that I work sometimes more than him at this point, so I think it’s always hard for him to just accept that this is happening,” she revealed while serving as the special celebrity guest at Furry Friends and Fancy Things — a fundraiser raising money for Furry Friends Adoption, Clinic & Ranch — on Saturday, November 6. “He doesn’t like change, but he’s embracing it a lot more.”

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“I think even just watching that last season back on TV has brought us closer together because we don’t want to [fight]. We love our kids way too much,” the "On Display" singer says. “We love our family way too much and we’re not going to let a little work get in the way.”

Meanwhile, Melissa previously teased that the highly anticipated season 12 has "a moment or two in there that I would say is as crazy as the table flip or the christening," telling OK!: "If I’m saying that, that means season 12 is major."

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"I think that relationships that were challenged last season .... turns on other people, so do I think there is a lot of relationship back and forth that’s going on,” the mom-of-three adds. “There are also a lot of friendships that you would never think would be made, but then they ended up being friends."


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