NEWSKristi Noem’s Cross-Dressing Husband Had an Unusual Kink for Yoga Pants, Online Model He Paid Claims

Shocking photos exposed the husband of former DHS Secretary Kristi Noem to be a cross-dresser living a double life.
April 2 2026, Published 12:46 p.m. ET
Kristi Noem's husband was a memorable client, according to one webcam model who was paid $25 a minute to chat with the exposed cross-dresser.
Lydia Love, a webcam model on the website Camsoda, "definitely” remembers Bryon Noem's face, telling the Times of London in an interview published on Tuesday, April 1, "There’s no way I could ever forget the fake b----."
The long-time husband of the former Homeland Security secretary was revealed this week to be living a double life messaging fetish models in the "bimbofication" fetish scene and a had a particular kink for enormous fake b------.
'He Would Try to Talk More Feminine'

Kristi Noem is 'devastated' over the report.
Bryon, 56, also had a thing for a certain kind of dress and would take on a more submissive role, according to Lydia, who spoke regularly with the father-of-three.
"He would try to talk more feminine. His kink was yoga pants," she told the Times. "He wanted to be the star of the show and really show off. I would hype him up."
The cam model also described Bryon as an "extremely needy client" who liked a lot of "praise and feedback."

Bryon Noem has not denied the allegations.
The ballon-stuffed shirt is what stuck with Lydia the most.
"I’ve never seen another client have them," she said of the massive fake b-----. "Ever."
The insurance agent last paid to talk dirty with Lydia about six months ago, according to her memory.
The model added that Bryon shared he had a wife but never revealed she was once the Homeland Security chief, and she "didn't want to talk about it," revealing they "mainly chatted in small talk."
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Bryon Noem Exchanged Hundreds of Messages With Fetish Models

Kristi and Bryon Noem have been married since 1992.
"He would say 'today wasn’t the best but I’m excited for right now,'" Lydia spilled.
The Daily Mail reported in a bombshell exposé on Tuesday, March 31, that the former first gentleman of South Dakota exchanged "hundreds of messages" with three women, whose "huge, huge ridiculous b----" he praised and claimed to covet.
In photos obtained by the outlet, Bryon — who shares three adult children with 54-year-old Kristi — can be seen wearing hot pants and tight tops over what appear to be balloons.
He made no effort to conceal his face in the images and is shown in some puckering up for the camera.
'The Family Was Blindsided'

The Noem's have three adult children.
When the Mail reportedly asked if Bryon ever talked to the women about his wife and suggested it could potentially lead to Kristi getting blackmailed, he responded, "Yeah, I made no comments like that, that would lead to that. I deny the second part of that."
Kristi and Bryon met in high school and wed in 1992. They are parents to two daughters, Kassidy, 31, and Kennedy, 29, and a son, Booker, 23.
"Ms. Noem is devastated. The family was blindsided by this, and they ask for privacy and prayers at the time," a representative for the recently fired security secretary said on Tuesday after the scandal was exposed.

