NEWSIs Reese Witherspoon on Good Terms With Ex-Husbands Ryan Phillippe and Jim Toth? Insiders Spill on Their Co-Parenting Dynamics
Reese Witherspoon has been divorced twice.
April 1 2026, Published 12:38 p.m. ET
Reese Witherspoon has weathered two very public divorces over the years, but insiders insisted the actress is currently on good terms with both of her former husbands: Ryan Phillippe and Jim Toth.
The Legally Blonde star, 50, was wed to Phillippe from 1997 to 2003, while she and Toth were spouses from 2011 to 2023.
Inside Reese Witherspoon's Relationship With Ryan Phillippe
Reese Witherspoon is 'very close' to ex-husband Ryan Phillippe.
"She's very close to Ryan. They have been co-parenting through the years, and they are friends," one source spilled to a news outlet, referring to their daughter, Ava, 26, and son Deacon Phillippe, 22.
"She has been supportive of her kids going into the entertainment industry," the insider added. "Anything they want to do, they are both supportive."
While Ava has followed in her parents' acting footsteps, Deacon has taken up music.
The exes met at Reese's 21 birthday party in 1997 and went on to star in the hit flick Cruel Intentions together. The blonde beauty and the actor, 51, attended couples therapy before making the final decision to split.
The Actress Is 'Good Friends' With Jim Toth
The actress talks to ex-husband Jim Toth 'every day,' a source claimed.
The Morning Show star, 50, is also "good friends" with Toth, 55, who is the dad of her son Tennessee, 11, another source shared.
The insider said she talks to Jim "every day. They collaborate and co-parent and are completely amicable with no bad blood."
Reese and the talent agent began dating in 2010 before getting married the following year.
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The Actress 'Loves' Living in 'Quiet' Tennessee
The actress shares two adult children with Ryan Phillippe and one kid with Jim Toth.
The Big Little Lies alum now spends most of her time in Nashville, Tenn., and will only go to Los Angeles, Calif., for work.
"She loves it there. It is similar to her upbringing. It’s a small, quiet existence for her," the source explained. "She feels attracted to Tennessee to live a simple life outside of her big career. It’s quiet versus her chaotic work life. It makes her happy."
Reese Witherspoon Is Dating Oliver Haarmann
The mom-of-three allegedly isn't looking to get married a third time.
Another thing that adds joy to Reese's life is her romance with financier Oliver Haarmann, whom she first sparked dating rumors with in 2024.
A source told Us Weekly their relationship is "going well," but the movie star is "super private about it, as she has always been."
That being said, the source revealed she "isn’t really looking for marriage again."
Haarmann, who was based in New York City when they first got together, has yet to join the A-lister at any red carpet events.
