Garner, who married the Good Will Hunting actor in 2005 and divorced him 2018, “doesn't want to be a part of the circus or media attention in any way,” spilled an insider.
What the Yes Day actress finds more important is that their family and their three children, Violet, 15, Serafina, 12 and Samuel, 9 remain the main focus. “She's trying to live her life and raise her kids, and the last thing she wants to be doing is be dealing with Ben's love life," the source told E! News, adding that “her focus is always on the kids' happiness and Ben being a good father.”
Another insider said, “What matters most to her is Ben being a great dad. They've been in a good groove when it comes to co-parenting for a while and their kids' happiness is Jen's main priority.”
But just because Garner wants to keep herself far away from the hullabaloo, it doesn't mean the brunette beauty doesn't want to see her hunky ex-hubby happy when it comes to his rehashed romance with the Latin superstar, whom he ended things with in 2004. “Jen isn't bothered by Ben hanging out with J.Lo or anyone else," another insider explained to Entertainment Tonight. "She wants what is best for Ben.”
As the ex-couple continues to co-parent their children, it is not only Affleck who is moving on in the romance department. As OK! previously reported, the 13 Going On 30 star is keeping herself busy — with keeping her options open. She was recently spotted out and about with handsome Yes Day costar Édgar Ramírez (who OK! sources revealed she is totally crushing on) and reportedly reuniting with her ex-boyfriend, CaliGroup CEO John Miller.
As for Ben, the Boston native seems to be enjoying his time with the Bronx-raised musician. OK! was the first to exclusively report back in April that the two had been "talking in private a lot over the past few months" amid her spilt from ex-fiancé Alex Rodriguez. Then it was revealed that the two spent a romantic week alone together in Montana.
It also came to light that Affleck had been sending the Hustlers actress "love notes" via email while she was in the Dominican Republic shooting the romantic comedy Shotgun Wedding.
Although preoccupied with other relationships, Affleck and Garner seem to keep being supportive of one another. The actor posted a beautiful Mother's Day tribute to the star on his Instagram that read, “So happy to share these kids with you. Luckiest parents in the world. Thanks for all the good you do. Happy Mother's Day. Love, their Dad.”