Teddi Mellencamp and Edwin Arroyave 'Put Their Divorce on Hold' When the Reality Star 'Found Out She Had Brain Cancer'

Teddi Mellencamp and Edwin Arroyave are moving forward with their divorce while navigating the former's health struggles.

Now, a source told a news outlet how the former couple is prioritizing kindness as they plan to remain present in each other's lives.

"When Teddi found out she had brain cancer, they put the divorce on hold to focus on her healing, and Edwin was all in to help her. He was there for her and the kids every step of the way, and a lot of people thought that it might get their marriage back on track because they obviously love each other," the insider revealed. "But they've decided that the best thing is to move forward with the divorce. They still care about each other deeply, but they know it's time to go their separate ways."

At 44 and 48 years old, the former flames are in agreement that this is the best decision for their family, paving the way for a smooth transition without conflict.

"This isn't some toxic Hollywood breakup, but it's still very emotional," the source added. "They're sad that this chapter is ending, but they're saying they will still be family; they just won't be married anymore. They're proving that not every breakup has to be messy."

In May, In Touch reported that the estranged couple showed court progress after filing for divorce in November.

They wed in July 2011 and share three children: Slate Arroyave, Cruz Arroyave and Dove Arroyave.

Edwin has submitted financial and property documents to aid the process.

Despite their decision to divorce, Teddi and Edwin supported each other during her recent health challenges. Teddi underwent surgery to remove tumors from her brain after struggling with severe headaches.

"For the last several weeks I've been dealing with severe and debilitating headaches. Yesterday the pain was unbearable and required hospitalization. After a CT scan and MRI, doctors found multiple tumors on my brain, which they believe have been growing for at least 6 months," the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star shared in an Instagram statement on February 12. "Two of the tumors will be surgically removed today – The remaining smaller tumors will be dealt with via radiation at a later date."

Teddi documented her hospital experience on social media, surrounded by Edwin, family, and friends. The next day, Edwin shared an update on Teddi's surgery.

"So many people asking for updates. All I will say right now is surgery went well," he stated on Instagram Stories on February 13. "That said, I've never seen @teddimellencamp in so much pain. She's finally getting some needed rest. I know she is so grateful for the outpouring of love."

Following her surgery, more tumors were discovered in Teddi's brain, which later shrunk and disappeared.

"One update I couldn't wait to share! All tumors stage 4 (metastasized melanoma in my brain and lungs) shrunk or disappeared so I have 6ish more weeks of immunotherapy and doctors believe I will be healed if everything stays on course," she announced on Instagram in April. "Thank you to everyone who has sent their love, prayers, and positivity."

Recently, the Bravolebrity spoke candidly about her love life amid her health battle, addressing the criticism she has faced.

"People have been coming for me about fostering a dog, and they've been coming for me for dating," she said in a June 11 episode of her "Two T's in a Pod" podcast. "[They say], 'The only thing she should be worried about right now are her kids and staying alive.'"