On Sunday night Janet Jackson performed for the first time on television in nine years before she accepted the Icon Award at the BBMAs—the first ever for a black female artist. It was a historical moment that her mother Katherine, sister Rebbie, and nephew (late brother Michael’s son) Prince all got to witness. But you know who wasn’t seated in the audience cheering her on? Janet’s niece (and Michael’s daughter) Paris—and she had plenty to say about it on Instagram the day after the awards. Read on for her reaction to being a no-show for her aunt’s important moment.